Archive for the ‘Lillian's Gift’ Category

I Wish for Fairy Wings

Tuesday, May 27th, 2008

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“Your turn. What did you wish for?”, Lillian asked me. This was just after she told me what she had wished for on the new dream catcher that her Pappaw Frank just bought her in Lake Tahoe. I was getting Lillian to bed and she stopped me and said we had to make wishes to the dream catcher before she went to bed. So, we did. Then she wanted each of us to share what we had wished.

She turned her back to me, pointed to her back and said “I wished for fairy wings”. I don’t know about any of you; but, that just melted my heart. Oh, and what did Mom wish for? Happiness . . . Simply Happiness.

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I Want to be the Tooth Fairy

Wednesday, May 21st, 2008

Lillian has decided she wants to be the tooth fairy when she grows up. I was telling someone this the other day and they said remind her that there are all kinds of fairies and she doesn’t have to be a tooth fairy to be a fairy. So, I was telling her she could be any kind of fairy she would like. I was naming things like flower fairy or book fairy. Her eyes lit up when I said Book Fairy. So, she decided she would like to be a Book Fairy and we will write a book or two about Book Fairies!

(Update) Lillian is now considering being a Flower Fairy also!

Be aware of the child in your life’s likes and dislikes and help them Discover Their Gift!

A Peaceful and Happy Place

Wednesday, May 14th, 2008

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I arranged for the author of The Secret of the Wizard’s Wand, Terry Lowey, to read her book to Lillian’s 1st grade class this morning. After reading the book to them she had them use their imagination and draw a picture of a peaceful and happy place. Terry’s book teaches kids that they have control of their thoughts and can choose to change their thoughts. Lillian drew a picture of her house. It was absolutely heart warming to see what the children drew. Especially the children who drew pictures of their grandparent’s house - talk about a tear jerker!

Deep Down Hurt Your Chest Laughter

Wednesday, May 14th, 2008

Every night before Lillian goes to sleep I do what we call “Happy Thoughts“. About a year and a half ago Lillian was having problems falling asleep. So, I began reviewing a few happy thoughts with her to help her fall asleep. We always do 4 of them (had to stop it somewhere or we’d be up all night).

Tonight when we got to the 3rd happy thought; for some reason Lillian decided to talk about names. She said her 3 names as she calls it - First, Middle and Last, then mine, then Thomas’ and then she wanted to know the cats 3 names. I told her Cinamon only had 1 name. Well, that was not acceptable. So, our cat’s new name is Cinamon Paige Darnell.

Now, for the 4th happy thought, I could not for the life of me figure out what she was saying (remember her speech is mostly unintelligible). So, she decided to spell out the word with sign language. She got out E, L, O, M and that was it. I was thinking what the heck is Elom. So, she spelled it again and after ELO I said “Electric Light Orchestra”. Now, I know it may not seem funny to you; but, I desperately have been needing to have some true, authentic laughter and that just did it. I’m thinking, here I am, past her bedtime, trying to figure what happy thought #4 is and she is spelling out ELO. Lillian was laughing really hard, too, and at the same time trying to say “stop” and do the sign for stop. Anyway, after many more minutes she did the sign language for cat and I finally figured out she wanted to give 3 names to my Mom’s cat. And she was trying to spell his 1st name - ELWOOD!! So, Mom and Frank, your cat’s new name is Elwood Arthur Romano.

I just thought I would share this with everyone; because it was a special gift to me tonight to be able to laugh so darn hard with my beautiful little fairy that it made my chest hurt!